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² Older men are to be self-controlled, worthy of respect, sensible, and sound in faith, love, and endurance. 

Titus 2:2

The book of Titus is a heartfelt pastoral letter. In it, Paul passionately instructs Titus on the intricate tapestry of church life. In chapter 1, he passionately paints the role of an elder. He highlights the qualities that make one truly fit for this noble calling. Moving into chapter 2, he passionately unveils the myriad other roles vital to the thriving community of faith. A vibrant church thrives not just through healthy leadership, but through the unique contributions of every individual. Each member plays an indispensable part, and in 1 Corinthians 12, Paul boldly compares the church to a magnificent body. Just as a body harmonizes its many parts to achieve a common purpose, a church thrives in unity. It comes alive with shared purpose.

If your throat is sore, it signals that your body is in distress. If circulation issues arise, they ripple through your entire being, impacting your vitality. When spine pain strikes, it confines your movement and freedom. Each part of your body holds equal significance. The feet are just as vital as the hands. The eyes hold no more importance than the mouth. A healthy body is a symphony, where every part must perform its role harmoniously to achieve true well-being.

Absolutely! Every category of people in the church is critical to its vibrant life. Each person contributes to the mission of a flourishing church community. Paul passionately emphasizes the importance of old men, young men, old women, and young women. He even highlights slaves. Each individual is a vital thread in the dynamic tapestry of our faith.

What is older?

Paul begins by focusing on the older men. It’s vital to remember that his message is directed toward Titus. It is not directed at the church congregation directly. Titus has the incredible responsibility of sharing these words of motivation with the diverse members of the church. The definition of “older men” is fluid and undefined; is it 75 or perhaps even 40? The truth is, each of us falls somewhere in between—older than some, yet younger than others. It transcends mere numbers. What truly matters is the genuine growth that occurs in each of these areas as one matures. There is no magical age at which these admirable character traits suddenly appear. As you grow and mature, you become a guiding light for those younger than you. You do this on their spiritual paths with the experience and wisdom you’ve cultivated along the way.

A vital lesson from Titus 2 is that a thriving church is deeply relational! Every individual should be engaged in learning from one another, actively sharing the wisdom they possess. Just like a vibrant stream that flows continuously, a healthy community inspires growth. It enriches all who draw from its life-giving waters. In contrast, when a stagnant pool is deprived of an outlet, it becomes a breeding ground for disease and decay. Let’s commit to fostering this dynamic exchange of knowledge and love, for that is where true vitality lies!

Who are you older than (if not by age, then by faith) in your local church? How can you uplift and mentor those younger than you? How can you ignite their spiritual journey? Guide them with your wisdom and experience. Your role can be a beacon of light, inspiring the next generation to grow in their faith!

Old men should be encouraged in their role

An older man may feel a twinge of discouragement. He realizes his physical strength is not what it once was. He might find himself past the prime of life. Younger, more vigorous men may have taken over in the workplace. He watches as his children grow independent. This may lead him to believe he is no longer useful. He might think his golden days are behind him. Yet, Titus must ignite a spark within them! They hold an indispensable role in nurturing a thriving church community. They are not forgotten, nor are they replaced—this is not the moment to retreat into the shadows! So much vital work awaits, and Titus should fervently inspire them to rise and embrace the calling before them.

Their example and experience are very valuable

While their physical strength may wane with age, the wealth of their experiences grows immeasurably. These rich experiences come from countless years of devoted service and deep Bible study. They endow them with a profound wisdom that young men often yearn for. Their lives should radiate godly character traits—sober-mindedness, dignity, self-control, faith, love, and unwavering steadfastness. The quality of “steadfastness” is crucial in this journey. It showcases their relentless fight. Their unwavering commitment to finishing the race is evident. Decades of devoted service illuminate their steadfast faith, as temptations and worldly distractions have not derailed them. Instead, they have gleaned invaluable lessons from others and possess a powerful testimony to share. Their inspiring example lights the way for others. It helps guide them to follow the path of faithful service to the Lord with unwavering resolve.

³ This is how we know that we know him: if we keep his commands.

1 John 2:3

Those who have walked this earth a bit longer possess a profound understanding of the Lord. Because of this divine wisdom, they rise as beacons of guidance. They help those who are still navigating the early paths of their spiritual journeys.

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Cross-References

• Proverbs 16:31
• Proverbs 20:29

Discussion Questions

• What age do you think counts as an older man?
• Why do you think Paul lists out these specific qualities as being important for an older man?
• What do we see in these verses about what makes up a healthy church?
• How is an older man’s example of steadfastness important for the church?
• How could you use this verse to encourage an older man who might think that he is not important in the church?

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