From Self-Confidence to God-Confidence in Paul’s Message

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Today our passages of scripture is short, but packed full of God’s amazing truth!

Are we beginning to commend ourselves again? Or do we need, like some, letters of recommendation to you or from you?

2 Corinthians 3:1

Are we beginning to commend ourselves, again?

In much of the first two chapters of 2 Corinthians, Paul has defended himself. False teachers had been attacking his credibility. The risk was that if they rejected Paul, then they may also reject his message, the gospel. As God’s messenger to the Corinthians, Paul needed to maintain credibility. Without it, he could not effectively lead the church and disciple its members. Therefore Paul defended himself in order to defend the gospel.

In this chapter, the defense continues. Paul asks, “are we beginning to commend ourselves, again?” His question is meant to drive home the point that Paul should need no re-introduction to the Corinthians. They should have been well acquainted with him and his history. He was not a stranger, but a friend who had been among them and had a relationship with them. Paul was not just some wandering preacher they had never met.

 You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everyone.

2 Corinthians 3:2

Do we need, as some do, letters of recommendation?

In today’s business world we are familiar with this concept. Before getting hired to a new job, you often have to provide references. These references vouch for your character and work history, also proving the facts listed on your resume.

The early church had a similar practice. Believers or Christian workers who moved to a new town would procure a recommendation letter from their previous church. This letter would be written by leaders of their church who know them. It would introduce them as a believer in a good standing and with upright character. When they came to a new place, they would then show this letter to the church there. The recommendation letter would be evidence that the newcomer was not a trouble maker or a false teacher.

Some people needed such an introduction. Paul does not! Paul was no stranger to these people! They knew him already. He should not have to do such things to win their trust.

The modern day practice of church membership in part stems from this. Some churches still ask for or write recommendation letters for their members who move to a new place. These letters can help the new church ensure the incoming member is a faithful follower of Christ. The member should be in good standing in the community and not embroiled in scandal. They should also not be under church discipline.

You yourselves are our letter of introduction

Paul’s letter of introduction was the Corinthians themselves. They not only knew who he was. Their faith in Christ directly resulted from Paul’s work on their behalf. The church was established by Paul. Their transformed lives was evidence of Paul’s good character and faithful service.

This could well be the strongest point Paul has yet made in his defense. The Corinthians did not need to look elsewhere to find evidence of Paul’s credibility. All they had to do was look at themselves and their own changed lives.

To be known and read by all

This recommendation “letter” was not just read by the leaders or a select group. Everybody could see with their own eyes evidence that Paul was on their side.

 You show that you are Christ’s letter, delivered by us, not written with ink but with the Spirit of the living God—not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts.

2 Corinthians 2:3

A letter not written with ink but with the Spirit of the living God

Even in the midst of his defense, Paul gives the glory to God. He says that they are a “letter from Christ” and written by the “Spirit.” Paul delivered this “letter” so to speak. But he didn’t write it. God was still the author of salvation. And Paul was his faithful servant.

Paul then moves into speaking about the Sufficiency of the Lord.

Such is the confidence we have through Christ before God. It is not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God. He has made us competent to be ministers of a new covenant, not of the letter, but of the Spirit. For the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.

2 Corinthians 3:4-6

Confidence in God

In our last chapter Paul said that they were led in “triumphal procession” and spreading the “fragrance of knowledge of Him everywhere.” He also said that they were the “aroma of Christ.” Then he asked “who is sufficient for these things?”

The answer is clear in verses 4-5 here.

Such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God. 

God’s Word speaks about the confidence we have in Him!

for the Lord will be your confidence
and will keep your foot from a snare.

Proverbs 3:26

We have confidence He will keep us from being ensnared by the enemy.

Therefore, we may boldly say,

The Lord is my helper;
I will not be afraid.
What can man do to me?

Hebrews 13:6

God is our helper! We can be bold and confidence because He is with us and leads us!

Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency is from God. Paul and his team were messengers for God. They proclaimed the gospel of Jesus in new places like a triumphant procession. They did so with confidence.

Is confidence good or bad? What is the difference between self-confidence and confidence in God?

Confidence in oneself is misplaced and a form of pride.

In addition, my brothers and sisters, rejoice in the Lord. To write to you again about this is no trouble for me and is a safeguard for you.

Watch out for the dogs, watch out for the evil workers, watch out for those who mutilate the flesh. For we are the circumcision, the ones who worship by the Spirit of God, boast in Christ Jesus, and do not put confidence in the flesh— although I have reasons for confidence in the flesh. If anyone else thinks he has grounds for confidence in the flesh, I have more:

Philippians 3:1-4

In the world today, confidence is generally viewed as a good thing. Trust in yourself. Trust in your abilities. Be assertive to pursue what you want in life. However, the Bible reveals many flaws in this worldly wisdom. Firstly, we are all sinners, totally depraved. Our hearts are deceitful. Secondly, our intelligence, skills, and strengths are limited and flawed. Many a self-confident person has gone down in flames.

18 Pride comes before destruction,
and an arrogant spirit before a fall.

Proverbs 16:18

So what is the alternative? Am I suggesting a cowering, nervous, and fearful demeanor? Should we go around afraid to speak in public, too nervous to apply for a top position, wracked with self-doubt? Of course not.

In this passage we see Paul and his team boldly declaring the truth of God. Throughout Acts they stood up to the opposition. They preached with power and threats and intimidation did not stop their work. This bold confidence did not come from themselves, but from God. It was He who transformed their lives. He filled them with the Spirit. He empowered their ministry. He guided their plans. He gave them supernatural peace and courage to face numerous obstacles and powerful enemies. If you saw Paul, you would not think “what a cowering loser.” No, you would think “here is a mighty man of God.”

The religious leaders were amazed at Jesus’ disciples. They were uneducated fishermen who spoke with power and authority

13 When they observed the boldness of Peter and John and realized that they were uneducated and untrained men, they were amazed and recognized that they had been with Jesus.

Acts 4:13

So how do we apply what Paul is speaking to our own lives?

Our confidence should come from God.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not rely on your own understanding;
in all your ways know him,
and he will make your paths straight.

Proverbs 3:5-6

It is so natural for us to fall back on self. We trust in our education. We trust in our skills. We trust in our bank account. We trust in our logic. We trust in our decision making or our abilities to make ends meet.

How does self-confidence instead of God-confidence manifest itself in our lives?

  • Lack of prayer. If we trust in our own abilities, we will not seek God’s help as often as we should. We must come before God to petition for His guidance.
  • Lack of preparation. If we trust in our own skills, we may think we have mastered something and don’t need to prepare properly.
  • Lack of quality time with the Lord.
  • Assuming that everything will go according to our plans and being too rigid to realize when God is altering them.
  • Undue disappointment when we fail or face criticism.
  • Procrastination.
  • Stress and anxiety. We believe that our fate is in our own hands. This belief robs us of peace. It causes more nerves and stress.

Paul says, “not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us.” Recognizing that truth is step one in placing complete confidence in God rather than yourselves.

17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

James 1:17

Every single good thing we have is from God. Any ability we have is from God. Our intelligence, strengths, logic, and spiritual gifts are all from God. Our opportunities in life are given to us by God.

You have never had one single success apart from Christ’s blessing on your life. That is not hyperbole. It is true. Even atheists with successes in the eyes of the world have Jesus to thank. He gave them their brains and their health and their skills and everything else, whether they recognize it or not. If that is true for the worldly successes of atheists, then it is even truer for the spiritual successes of God’s people. Their spiritual successes rely more heavily on Him. The spiritual successes of God’s people are even more dependent on Him. Zero spiritual success comes from self.

I am the vine; you are the branches. The one who remains in me and I in him produces much fruit, because you can do nothing without me.

John 15:5

The first key to being completely dependent on Christ is to have the mindset described above. We must believe that everything good in our lives is from God. If we believe that and remember it, then every area of our lives will benefit. Positive changes will occur.

We also need to recognize specific ways that we act (such as forgetting to pray) when self-confidence sneaks in. If we are wary about that, then we can take action quickly. We can right our course by coming back to Jesus when we begin to drift.

Who has made us sufficient to be ministers of the new covenant

God transformed Paul and his team, turning them into diplomats of heaven. They were ministers. It wasn’t because of their educational background. And it wasn’t because of their pure lives. It was because Jesus transformed them. And Jesus sent the Helper, the Holy Spirit, who would empower them for this ministry. Remember Paul was a very learned man! Paul and his team were not saving people. Jesus Christ was saving people.

If you are saved, then you too are a minister of the new covenant. It is not that you will be at some future time after finishing seminary or getting ordained. No. Every believer is called by God to be His ambassadors. Are you doing it? Are you performing the role of a minister?

The letter kills, but the Spirit gives life

The old covenant acted as a mirror to reveal our sin. The new covenant offers a permanent solution to that sin in Christ. The law condemns because no one can keep it all the time. But the blood of Jesus cleanses our sins and sets us free, giving us new life.



© Kimberlee Smith 2025 http://www.itstartssmall.com All rights reserved. 
 


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